Married men please help!!!!!?

What worries me here is not the fact that he doesn't want to perform to you, but the fact that he has to look at other women in order to do so. I consider this to be extremely disrespectful and I wouldn't even let him touch me when he's looking at those pictures. I think you 2 should have a serious conversation. Don't simply tell him not to look at those pictures. Sit and ask him to be honest and tell you why does he feel the need to look at them in order to be able to perform. There might be something else there, and I don't mean like he doesn't love you anymore, there could be a problem with him. What if he's addicted to those things? That could be the case.